Monday, July 22, 2013

Quiet Summer



Wow... it's hard to believe that it's been over 4 months since I posted here.  The time has just flown by.  It has been a very quiet and relaxing summer so far.  Daniel is away at cadet camp for 6 weeks, Andrew is working full-time, and Vicki is babysitting and volunteering at Camp Seggie, so it has been a very quiet summer for Cheryl & I.  Watching friends and family as they deal with young children, I am reminded of how far we have come over the past 20 years.  It is so nice to be through that stage of life.  Overall, my kids are well-adjusted and seem to be heading in positive directions which leaves time for Cheryl & I to reconnect and enjoy some alone time.  It is strange to think that as for pretty much as long as Cheryl & I have been together we have had kids around.  That time is changing fast as the kids get older and blaze their own trails.  I love the kids, but it is so nice to be able to go for a drive, or go to dinner and not have to worry about them.  I am really looking forward to this next stage of life where we can focus on our own interests. 

With Dan away and Andrew working, it has been a nice summer with Vicki.  We have been to the beach several times this summer and I am trying to make every effort to be there for Vicki as I realize that she, too, is growing up and will be wanting to work full-time soon enough.  Our "family time" has become rarer so whenever we have the 5 of us around, I am trying to make every effort to have family dinners, family trips, outings etc. 

I'm looking forward to our cottage week at the end of the summer with Mark & Cathy. It's so nice to have this annual tradition to look forward to each summer and something to look forward to on those long days at work when the sun is shining and I would rather be at the beach. 


Embrace the inevitable adversity

This is a quote that I read a while back from Peter Rukavina and I love the the simplicity and succinctness of the four words.  Adversity is...